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The Best Sexual Positions For A Woman To Reach Orgasm During Sex

By: Roberto Bell

Men! Your lover wants an orgasm during your lovemaking!

Though she may not want an orgasm every time you make love, she certainly isn't going to be too pleased if sex finishes when you've ejaculated, turned over and gone to sleep! The best way to ensure her sexually contentment is to make sure she's had at least one orgasm before you ejaculate. There are several sexual positions which are more likely to make this happen. So, without further ado, here's our suggested list of positions that will let her get the orgasm she craves, while making sure you don't miss out on your orgasm!

First of all, if you haven't tried sex in the woman on top, then check it out! Many women like having the upper hand, so to speak, when it comes to enjoying sex - it's a position that allows them to move in the way that gives them the greatest chance of an orgasm, whether that's through clitoral stimulation or G spot stimulation. She can rock her hips and pelvis much more in this position, and because she's in control of her movements, she's likely to get orgasmic satisfaction. She can either press her clitoris against the body of your penis as you thrustgrind it against your body, or lean back or forwards so that her vagina gets the exact pressure it needs to give her pleasure. If you can control your ejaculation, this is the position that gives her the greatest chance of attaining orgasm during sexual intercourse.

If she wants to increase the sensations in her vagina, she can use her PC muscles to squeeze your penis: that will increase your pleasure, and it will certainly add to the pressure on her G spot - and therefore increase the chances of her having an orgasm and also ejaculating when she reaches orgasm. (Female ejaculation is the subject of another article - but basically, if her vagina is stimulated for long enough, and in the right way, when she achieves her reaches orgasm, the fluid that collects in glands around her urethra will squirt out during the muscular contractions of her orgasm.)

And another advantage of woman on top lovemaking is that you can see her breasts, and caress them as she moves on top of you. Of course, if she's facing away from you, you can see her buttocks as she moves. But a lot of men find this position, known as the Reverse Cowgirl,uncomfortable because it bends the penis too much.

And what next? Well, the good ol' missionary position. But before you groan, think again. Many women like missionary position sex, because it allows for really deep penetration and connection, a thing that women adore. And men like the position too! Sex in the man on top position, when the woman has her legs bent upwards, her knees near her chest, allows for deep penetration and lots of loving feeling. What's more, if you have a penis that curves upwards when it's erect, as many do, then man on top variations will allow your penis to thrust against her G spot as you make love. Combine this with a little clitoral play, either with a vibrator or with your fingers, and you have the greatest chance of her achieving orgasm!

As a refinement, you can stop thrusting your hips, and move your hips in a circular pattern. The penis moves in a very satisfying way in the vagina! This sex position is called Churning The Butter in Tantric sex circles, and it can send her into multiple, ongoing orgasm. Another variation of man on top sex is to try eight shallow thrusts followed by one deep one. The shallow thrust should just shimmer against her G spot, so don't go more than a couple of inches into her vagina when you try this routine.

Another great idea for her to reach orgasm is to have her sit upon a table or, for that matter, any other surface where she's the right height for you to enter her while you're standing in front of her with her legs apart. Sex in this position is great because you can thrust into her while you kiss and hold each other. To increase the chances of her reaching orgasm, apply a little extra clitoral stimulation. In any case, in this position your regular thrusting may stimulate her G spot in just the right way to bring her to a rapid climax. It's also a lot more stimulating to be having sex in a new position and out of the bedroom. The added excitement of this can help take you both to a quicker and more powerful climax.

Next, there's a very loving sex position known as the "spoons" position. She lies on her side with you both facing the same way, while you enter her from behind. This is a very easy position to get into, especially if she lifts her upper leg a little bit while you push into her. The best thing about this sex positions is how good it feels - for both of you. You can reach around her, fondle her breasts, and kiss back, while she (or you) can stimulate her clitoris. Another great addition to this position is the chance to make love on your sides as you face each other.

The best way to get into this position is by starting from the normal man on top, have her raise her knees towards her chest and then roll over onto your sides (agree which way you're going first!)). You can keep going for much longer in this position before you ejaculate, as there's much less pressure on your erection. And, with the right attention, and perhaps a helping hand on her clitoris, she will reach orgasm before you do, so you can have the pleasure of being triggered into your own orgasm by feeling her coming around your penis inside her vagina.

And lastly, what about the thrill of the rear entry sex position? This primal position is many men's favorite position for sex, being so rude and raunchy, and men often come quickly. But many like it too, and there are plenty of good reasons for this. It allows deep penetration, it allows her to express her sexuality to the full, letting her thrust and ride her man as she wishes, and, above all, it hits her G spot! Rear entry sex is very primal, especially if you hold her hips and direct her movements. If she raises or lowers her hips, you'll get a lot of exciting variation in sensation - so you can find the precise position that gives you both the greatest pleasure.

There you are, then: a series of sexual positions which give you a chance of the woman's orgasm during intercourse. But if you're the man, and these positions don't help her reach orgasm on their own, don't worry. Help her enjoy an orgasm from oral sex or a hand job before you enter her, and you'll both be abe to enjoy sex to the full.

Orgasm during intercourse feels great, but remember there are plenty of other ways of getting orgasmic satisfaction!

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Rod Phillips writes for Sex and You.

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