Is it good to dedicate ourselves totally to our kids?

The approach to do everything for our kids is right but is a little problematic. When we decide to dedicate totally our live to our children, it is like to give up on ourselves. We knowingly say to ourselves that our life is not important.
When we do so we forget something fundamental and very important. Our children will be much happier when we will be satisfied. It is a fact! If our agenda is only a job form mornings to evenings, and at evenings we dedicate ourselves only to our kids, soon we will be discharged like a battery . So the conclusion from this is that we have to charge ourselves. How to achieve that? It's simple.
Do you remember how your life before the children was? I think you do. Most of us lived as a free bird, we flew wherever we wanted, and we did almost everything that was on our mind. From one side, we can't turn back those times but from the other hand we don't have to live only from that memory.
So the question is how to combine between parenting and the will to live as a young carefree couple. In my opinion, the answer to this question is - home family activities. When we will do things as a family (with our children) it will be possible to claim for time only for ourselves, as a couple.

For example, if on this week we already played table games with our children, and made a family performance and in addition sat and helped them with their home work, it will be "approved" to go out. Only us, the parents. You may call for granny or ask your friends for help. You can decide that once a week you make a babysitter for your friend's children and once a week they will do it for you.

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